Monday 3 January 2022

The Forsyths in 2021


A few years ago, in lieu of Christmas cards, I wrote a little update on where our family was, what we were up to and our highlights from the year. Since then, I’ve still not sent any Christmas cards, but also ended up forgetting the update too – how very ‘Martha’ – haha!

Anyway! Thanks to the lovely extended days off this year (how awesome is a Monday bank holiday 2 days AFTER new year?!) I’ve got some time to put pen to paper (or fingers to keyboard) and babble on in a meandering soliloquy that you are very welcome to read if you fancy.

So, without further ado, here’s a little summary for each member of the family:

Adam

Our favourite Mackem has been working at Transform Hospital Group as their Digital Marketing Manager for nearly 2 years now. He started on 23rd March – the DAY lockdown started!! So he’s been working remotely the whole time. Since then, his team ended up moving from Manchester to Glasgow, so now he has the occasional trip across the border to meet with the rest of the team.

He’s still very much into fitness – having completed P90X, Insanity and all those types of things, and is impressively focussed when he wants to eat healthily. During the summer we had a race to lose ½ stone and he beat me (and then lost another ½ stone!) and the winning prize he chose was a 3 night trip to Majorca! We all went along though, so I wasn’t overly upset that he won!

His infectious cheekiness and sense of fun is still as alive as it ever was, and everyone loves being with him. My mum regularly lets me know what a lovely husband I have and what an amazing daddy the boys have, and I do happen to agree with her actually… 😊

Martha


I had a bit of a change around with work this year. I left HSL in August 2020 after a challenging time during early Covid, and ended up working with Adam at Transform for 10 months! We were sat next to each other (I mean… we were sat at home at the end of the dining room, but we were also on all the same Marketing meetings etc haha!)

I actually loved working with him, but the role itself wasn’t what I’d hoped and when my old manager got in touch to ask whether I’d consider coming back to HSL – with a nice promotion (I went from Communications Exec to Communications Manager) I thought, why not? I’ve enjoyed being back with some familiar faces (though a lot of the original crew aren’t there anymore and I do miss them), and have enjoyed stretching my creative writing side again.

I still love to bake, go on walks, and have started reading more again. I want to carry that through into 2022 and am going to challenge myself to read at least 1 book a month (I know that doesn’t sound a lot, but I think I read a sum total of about 3 books in 2020!)

Josh(ua)

Josh (he stopped being Joshie a couple years ago *sob*) is now in Year 5 at school and is (overall) enjoying it. He went on his first residential in September and had an absolute BALL! He loved every minute.

His favourite subjects are history and geography and he says he wants to be an archaeologist when he grows up. He was particularly pleased this year when we went to visit my Auntie Jane near Norwich, and he heard that she’d been excavating some Roman ruins, and not only that… but that the Celtic Warrior Boudicca had walked the very walk that we went on together!

He’s a very sociable boy and is very caring and aware of people’s feelings (most the time). His teachers say he’s always the first one there when people are upset or have hurt themselves and will try to help wherever he can.  

Joey

Joey – our very own baby kangaroo (!) is his usual amazing self. He lives life at 100 miles an hour, but is also very sweet and gives the biggest hugs – not just a quick squeeze and he’s off – no, he holds on for as long as time allows.

He began an SEN referral in Autumn 2019 and this year we finally had his assessment and diagnosis – autism and ADHD. I know not everyone is in favour of having a diagnosis (or ‘label’) but I’m so glad that we went through the process. It’s helped us and his teachers understand his unique way of seeing the world a little better. He’s not severely autistic thankfully, but it shows itself in ways that you wouldn’t always realise (if you’re interested, I’m happy to discuss privately, but I won’t put it here for all to see 😊 ).

He loves all things Pokemon and is incredibly impressive in his ability to retain information about them. He’s a keen artist and loves to tell us how talented he is 😊 He’s also his happiest when out in the wilds – going for a walk with our Joey is always an adventure and I’m sure he takes about 3x the number of steps as we do as he whizzes around like a puppy discovering trees for the first time.

Our 2021 top 10 (in no particular order – just as they pop into my mind!)

1. Our trip to Dubai (the Atlantis Water Park was particularly incredible)

2. The last minute, spur of the moment 3 night holiday to Majorca – after so many cancelled holidays it was AMAZING. 


3.     Our bathroom makeovers – particularly our on-suite – sooo beautiful! (we moved to a new house in Nov 2020)

4. Visiting the tank museum in Norwich (we had a week in a caravan there, but the tank museum was probably Adam and the boys’ favourite thing that year up to that point)

5.    The boys starting Karate classes (Adam’s quite jealous!)


6. Visiting Stonehenge for the first time (I know it’s just a pile of rocks, but it felt so special for all of us)


7.  Finding new walks in and around Roberttown – we really love being in such a lovely little Yorkshire village that is situated in so much countryside. 

8.  Completing our paint by numbers geek wall (honestly, it sounds juvenile, but paint by numbers is exactly the kind of mindfulness malarkey that works for us)

9. A caravan holiday to Cornwall with the Smith family. Lovely to spend time with them, and bonus – this year Joey didn’t break an ankle! (He fell over on a crazy golf course and ended up in a moon boot on our first Cornwall excursion in 2020!) 

10. Adam’s 2021 birthday cake… honestly, it was something else!! Eton Mess inspired – Victoria sponge cake layers, sandwiched with Chantilly cream, strawberries, blueberries and crushed meringue. Smothered in slightly salted ganache and decorated with assorted fruit, more meringue and a white chocolate shard. 

That’s all folks! I hope you are all well and looking forward to 2022!

 Lots of love to family and friends near and far.

 

From

Martha, Adam, Josh & Joey xx